Narcissistic Personality Disorder
I might have shared my experience with certain character types that I absolutely hated. One of whom, I have the pleasure of calling dad. Going through this post by Dr.Perry, I was sad and delighted to learn that all the fights weren’t tough situations one had to grow out of.
Some people have it rough, to go through various emotions without any support or love. But, we make it through just in time to save face and pose as a fully functional human being.
The reality of it is NPD is nothing but a medical lingo for professional assholes, who are better off dead.
Lowering your levels
While many likened the unique character of Jack Sparrow, his carefree attitude and complete disregard for rules – it helped build a movie franchise, but ‘The Joker’ killed Heath Ledger and poisoned many youths.
When it grows beyond just fandom, it’s chaos. And, what’s that got to do with Narcissism and lowering your standards?
While NPD people try and compete with you regardless of your age and relationship, they poke you and drag to their levels of mediocrity. At times there won’t be enough choices but to seek to their level of meanness, just to survive.
Fighting back is an option
Many articles suggest cutting off the relationship completely is the best option, some of us don’t have that choice. A friend of mine broke down and cried in the middle of the road, she had an abusive father who would take advantage of her. Now, she’s left alone staying with the maniac while the siblings washed hands off the subject. She has to move away, that was my best advice. But, why is she staying with him still? She said in a funny tone ‘what can I do, can I have my friends beat him ?’
Fighting back in a manner that isn’t violent and definitely not lowering one’s perspective on life is a necessity in most cases. Removing all thoughts of vindictiveness is easier said than done, but all the attempts to help them realize their evil ways might turn futile.
Please read on the traits of a narcissistic asshole, point a finger and put him to shame. All they seek is attention and respect from the society, while they disregard the emotions of their family members, and take them for a ride. Please keep yourself informed, and lay a helping hand to people who are under the spell of bad chemicals in their brains.
This could save someone from being abused by professional assholes.